The Day My World Stopped Spinning

[rklepper]

Last Monday (the 8th) my wife was in an accident and totaled out her car. When the ambulance got there they noticed that she was unresponsive so took her to the hospital and she was given a CT scan of her brain. What they found were 3 tumors in her brain. The tumors were unrelated to the accident, but it is what got them discovered.We spent the last week and a half at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester MN where she had many diagnostic tests, including biopsies of the tumors. Well we just got the pathology report back today and she has 3 – Grade 4 glioblastoma multiforme astrocytomas in her brain. These are malignant brain tumors which are the worse kind. They are inoperable. She would lose too much functioning if they were to remove them.
She starts radiation therapy tomorrow as they said we have no time to waste. She will have radiation therapy every day for the next 2 weeks and then they will discuss the prognosis. I am deep in despair and do not know what to do. She is more than my wife and the love of my life. We are true soul mates and have been together for 25 years. She is the woman I will be spending eternity with. I have no idea what to do. I go to work, but I am a mess. I stay home, but I am a mess. I cannot stand to see my Love going through this. The pain she is going through and the fear is unbearable for both of us. I have never felt so much pain and fear and I have never felt so much despair.

Your life can change forever in a matter of minutes. Here is a photo of her. She is so young and so beautiful.

Just to update you. My wife has passed away of complications related to her condition. I have no idea if life can ever be the same or even ever be bearable.

[cgratti]

I am truly sorry to hear this. I cant begin to imagine what you are going through, I would suggest you stay home and get yourself in order. Going to work and not being able to function can only lead to you being injured or killed.

It sounds easy for me to say it because I am not in your shoes, but I think it's best for you and your family to get your mind in order. Your wife needs you now, and she needs you to be able to make clear decisions with and for her.

Again, I am sorry and I hope everything works out for you.

Chuck

[Belmondo]

Doc:
I'm a totally at a loss. I know there is nothing I can say or do to help you at this time. I can only guess at the helplessness you must be feeling right now.

Please know that you and your wife are in my heart and my prayers. It may not be much consolation, but you have many friends here at POTN who will do whatever we can to help, even if it's nothing more than to give you our best hopes and wishes.

Tom

[Maureen Souza]

Doc: I am sorry you and your wife are going through this. I know you must be feeling so helpless and wondering what to do next but we will keep you in our prayers.

[joegolf68]

All I can say is how sorry I feel and that although I seldom go pray, I will tonight and give a prayer for your wife, you and all the loved ones involved.

[imanyabob]

I'm so sorry for you and your wife. I know exactly how you feel. I've been there.

Hang in there, Doc... you both will be in my prayers. *hugs*

[300Dplus]

I'm so sorry about your wife Doc, I really am. You and your lovely wife will be in my prayers from tonight on. Have faith and hope, I know I will.

[lvthebroncos]

Well this is two messages in a row that have just floored me! I am a newbie on this site so even though I do not know you my heart goes out to you. My sister in law who is only 24 has had two surgeries for brain tumors. She cannot have any more surgeries because (as in the case of your wife) it will severely impact her way of life. I cannot image my spouse (the love of my life) going through this. There is nothing we can say here that will ease your pain, I just hope you know that we will be praying for you and your wife.

[Athena]

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Permagrin]

Doc, I'm so sorry to hear this. I wish there was something I could do or say that would help....just please know we will be lifting you both up in prayer too.

[Claire]

Doc, I'm so sorry to hear this. :(

Take time off work, have people around who love you and try to sort your mind from the initial chock. Your wife needs you and if you need anything I'm sure you have plenty of friends IRL & here that'll be there for you.

HUGS

[Jayson Prentice]

Mr. Klepper! I'm so sorry to hear of this, I hadn't heard anything from my sister that your daughter had told her. I can't even imagine what you are going through right now, but I wish you all the best for you and your wife...

[R Hardman]

One more prayer outbound... Be strong, supportive, and positive. Have a relative and friends sister going through the last rounds of radiation/chemo. If they went through it years ago I know they would not be here today. Both now have prognosis of a normal life. Modern medicine has come a long way. Have faith.

[Titus213]

Doc,
Please know that I am also praying for you and your wife. I know the clinic there and she is in the best medical hands available. She needs you now so that has to be your focus.

[short5]

I feel your grief Doc and am sorry you and your family has to go through this. I had a recent brush with, and successful treatment for cancer. I know the indescribable feeling,it goes beyond words. Good luck, a lot of people will be pulling for you guys.

[queenbee288]

Doc, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

[Dante King]

Word can not express my sorrow. God bless! I am pulling for you. I will keep you both in my prayers. Wish there was something I could do to help.

[Chris71]

Very sorry to here about this Doc. I will keep you and your family in my prayers!

[wardie]

Doc,

I'm sorry that I'm not a religious person in any way so I can't offer you a prayer but please believe that all my heart, thoughts and wishes are with you both right now. We had a similar scenario a few years ago.

Stay strong as she will need your strength in the coming times. Use all the support you have here on the forums, the support of both your families and friends as well as any services available at the hospital to bolster that strength. Do what you have to to stay strong it's one of the most important things you can do for her.

My families love to you both.

Wardie

[ayotnoms]

Doc: So very sorry to read this news about your wife. I hope you and your wife find the strength and courage to cope with this ordeal. Also, may you take some comfort in the knowledge that you have friends all over the world who will have you both in their thoughts and prayers.

God Bless

[luckyart60]

Doc having been down the same road myself, I feel your pain. I pray that you will find the strengh needed to support your wife in these difficult times. God bless you both

[Cadwell]

Doc, my thoughts are with you and your wife.

[ibdb]

Doc - I'm speechless. Every night before I go to bed I check in on my kids -- usually it's just opening their doors and taking a quick look. I'll be giving them extra hugs tonight.

My very best wishes to you and your wife...

[condyk]

I want to wish you both all the very best. It's time like this that we realise where our priorities need to be.

[Greg_C]

Doc, this is truly tragic news for you and your family. You have my best wishes for a speedy recovery for your wife.

[ryleung]

Doc, I dunno if this means anything, but at least the CT scan has revealed the tumours and now your wife has a fighting chance to recover. Had the accident not take place, you and Mrs. Doc might never find out about them until it is much too late.

Keep strong. Our prayers will be with you.

[rudgej]

Doc, it saddens me to hear about the problems that you and your wife are going through, but you certainly have my best wishes and hopes that her treatment proves to be as effective as possible.

[YosemiteJunkie]

Doc, your wife and family are in my prayers. I can't imagine your pain for that is yours alone. But do have some sort of experience in loss. My first wife passed on from cancer. Last March the doctor told me that it would be a miracle if I saw my next birthday. (that was in May). So if there is nothing else I know, there is always HOPE and faith goes a long ways. As said, you all have my prayers.

[th3r0m]

Doc, my best wishes to you and your wife. I'll be keeping you in my prayers.

[R_Metzel]

Best wishes and prayers from me and my family. Keep your heads up and think positive.

[Woolburr]

Doc, if the power of prayer and positive thinking is worth anything, you can count on one heck of a lot of it coming from your friends here. Everyone is pulling for things to work out for the best. Hang in there!

[gkuenning]

Doc,

Unlike some others, I haven't been there, so I can't imagine your depths of despair right now. All I can say is that there are sure a lot of us pulling for both of you, and we're holding you firmly in our hearts.

[Pete]

My thoughts are with you at this truely horrendous time. I can only pray that wife wife is comfortable as possible for as long as possible and that her peace is everlasting.

[::John::]

Doc - you're obviously not alone, as you can see. You have a lot of POTN friends. Best wishes to your wife, you and your family.

[delinian]

Doc, You and your wife are in my prayers.

[sprinkles]

my thoughts and best wishes are with you and your family..

[Becca]

Doc, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful wife.

[kato1]

My prayers are with you both also.
It is so important to live and love as you have and are still doing.
We must all make the very best of what time we are given together with our loved ones.

[JimAskew]

Doc,

My heart goes out to you and your wife. Put your faith in the Lord and the professionals who are treating your wife. She and you will be in our thoughts and prayers as you face this challenge. You be there for her and we all will be here for you.

[rklepper]

I really appreciate the outpouring here. I believe in the power of prayer and positive thinking. Even though the outlook isn't too good, there is always the chance of remission. I just feel so helpless all the time right now. Thanks again and do keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

We have always lived life to the fullest and truly been blessed in many ways during our lives. I just need to get back to that somehow.

She is everything to me.

[kckong]

Hello Doc, I'm new on POTN & I don't think we've "met" before.

When I read your post, I couldn't help but recall my sister-in-law's battle with brain tumour & my mother-in-law's battle with breast cancer.

Fortunately, both of them won their battles. But it was not easy at all. Both these women found immense strength from within themselves and their loved ones to fight.

I recall how shocked and sad my cousin and my father-in-law were when they found out. Instead of succumbing to their sorrow, they took control of their emotions and immersed themselves into "planning the fight." I was amazed at how they could do that but they did.

I may not be very good in expressing myself but I hope you get what I mean. Your wife needs you more than ever. Stay strong and keep on fighting!

I don't know how radiation therapy compares with chemo therapy. But I know of a Qigong practitioner based in Australia who works with cancer patients during and after therapy. If you would like to contact him and find out more, do PM me. As far as I know, he will be more than willing to share his knowledge / advice with you.

God bless.
kc

[tjrenegade]

My thoughts and prayers are with you....

Best wishes

[Guineh]

Doc: I just wanted to say that you and your wife are in my prayers as well.

[Rob612]

I can't say anything that hans't already been told. But my prayers and toughts, together of those of my wife are with you. Keep us posted, whenever you can and feel like. And remember, most of us are unknow each other in real life, but you have a lot of friends here. And these are the moments where the real friends show up. We are here. God Bless you both.

[MDJAK]

Doc, there are so many members here that sometimes people can get lost in the shuffle. For me, that has never been the case with you as I've always loved your avatar, that young, bright smiling face staring out at me every time you post.

I've literally got the chills reading this and am ready to cry.

Godspeed to you and your wife and may the treatment be successful.

Hang in there, bud.

mark

[Jon]

My deepest sympathy, and best wishes for her recovery. Certainly a positive attitude can help in dealing with these things; keep looking ahead!

Jon

[jamesdean007]

My family went through cancer with my father. I will pray for your wife, you and your family. Try and surround yourself with a great support team. Well, kind of like what you've already seen from here. Feel free to PM me if you want someone to talk to.

[Ferrari 1]

This is where "faith" comes in. Sometimes, we have to be flat on our backs before we "look up". I am a believer, and know that God has a plan for our lives. We may not know what it is, or why things happen, or why loved ones suffer, but He does. I am so sorry for you and your wife's suffering and I will add you to my prayer list until you tell us all is well.

I also believe in miracles, as I have seen them transpire in these situations. God is the ultimate physician. We all need to be praying for a miracle here. One of the promises you will find in the bible is "Where two or more are gathered in His name, praying, He will hear and answer our prayers. I am, also, an ordained Deacon Pastor, and will spread the word. Grace and peace, my friend~

[puddlepirate44]

Doc, it's times like these that I wished I had all the answers to all those questions that start with "Why?". I don't. No one does. However, I do know that you are loved and respected by all that frequent this forum, myself included. The love that you have for your wife and your family has always been and evident and a real thing in your posts here. I think that is why this news hurts us so deeply now. Though many of us cannot fathom what you're going through right now, please know that we love you and your wife, though we've never met you, and that our prayers are earnest and sincere. Please keep us posted, especially if there's anything that we can do.

~Dan

[Bill Roberts]

Doc, please try to look on the positive side even though so often there doesn't seem to be one.
It's small consolation but If she hadn't had the car accident and the subsequent CT scans you wouldn't be aware of her condition at all until it was too late. At least this way she can begin treatment and at least have a fighting chance. I'm sure everyone here is praying with you as am I.

[stlscape]

I'm so sorry to hear you and your wife are going through such a difficult time. My husband died suddenly (car accident) when he was 32, so I understand the effect of sudden changes in your own plans and expectations for your life. My prayers for a good prognosis are with you and your family. Take things minute-by-minute if that's what you need to do, and be careful yourself.

[Mark_Cohran]

Doc, I'm not the praying type, but you and your wife are in my thoughts. I can't imagine how you feel - I've been married to the same woman for nearly 29 years, and to lose her would be devasting to me. I wish you and your wife all the best. Be strong for her, but don't forget to take care of yourself as well.

Mark

[gjl711]

I don't know what to say, I am so sorry. Reading you story brought me back 10 years ago when almost the exact same thing happened with my mom. She could see, but no longer identify stop signs and kept running them. Hang in there and do what you have to. I know it will be a very rough road ahead and I hope whatever course you choose goes well for you guys.

[elTwitcho]

She is more than my wife and the love of my life. We are true soul mates and have been together for 25 years. She is the woman I will be spending eternity with

Doc, your wife is extremely lucky both to have found someone who cares so deeply for her, and to have someone like that available at a time like this. Your love and support will make all the difference at a time like this. Someone facing the fight of their life needs someone to draw support from, your wife is very fortunate.

Stay strong, as long as she's still fighting there will always be hope. I personally knew a woman who was given such a bad prognosis for her cancer that the doctors told her she had two months at the most. She said she wasn't ready to leave her children and she lived for 15 more years, saw her children grow up and twice more beat situations that her doctor told her were hopeless. It's never hopeless.

[ajbalazic]

Doc,

My prayers are with you, your wife, and your entire family. Make the most of your time together, share the memories you have and laugh and cry together. Our thoughts are with you.

[sugarzebra]

Hi Doc,
Individually and collectively as the POTN community our hearts ached as we read your post. I have just prayed, and will continue to pray for your wife and also that at this time of greatest challenge you will both experience the strength and profound peace necessary to face each day as they unfold.

[Davinor]

our thoughts and best wishes are with you and your family, you'll both be in our prayers..

David

[Kevin]

I can not imagine what you and your wife are going through. May your faith and belief in all that's powerful carry you and your wife through this. You both will be in my prayers and thoughts in the weeks to come. God Bless.

[cfpackerfan]

My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Numbers 6:24-26

[Kiddo]

Doc:
So sorry to here what you are going through. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your wife. Her picture is really cute and thank you for sharing it with us.

[cjsa]

Oh, Doc, I'm so sorry- I will be praying for you and your wife.
God Bless You for being a great husband to her.

[jreimer19]

Sorry to hear about this Doc: My prayers and thoughts are with you.

[Attic]

Doc, sorry to hear of your despair. One thing you will never lose is the memories of the great times you've been privileged together, during tough times you need to call upon these memories to help you through. I hope you can all get through these difficult times with as little pain as possible. Our hearts go out to you you all.

Kindest Thoughts
Alby.

[dawnrogers]

A positive word....my friend discovered she had a brain tumour 6 months ago after beating ovarian cancer 2 years previously.....they were discovered after a fall...she had the radiotherapy several days of it...and has been fairly well since, she is leading as full a life as possible .........she won't be here forever but then none of us will but she has had time to spend with her family and enjoy life......I pray that your wife too will have this time...to be with you and to enjoy with you...
Thoughts and prayers with you both.

[-MasterChief-]

sorry to hear about your situation doc. im at a loss for words ... count on me and my wife to include you, your wife, and your family in our prayers.

[Saralonde]

With the amount of prayers coming from the people on this site, I hope this gives you and your beautiful wife strength to deal with this blow. Whenever you feel down, reread these messages and know there are many behind you holding you up. We will pray for you both daily.

[arthurgoh]

Really sorry to hear about your tragedy. Reading your post made me remember sometime a couple of weeks ago when my wife totaled the car as well, thankfully she's fine but that experience was harrowing enough. I can't imagine how I'd feel in your place.

Hope you have friends and family to take strength in for now. Our prayers are with you and your soulmate.

[qhorses]

Doc, I'm so sorry your family is going through this. I'll pray for you all.

[rjmhotrod]

I'm so sorry to hear this... You're right, glioblastomas are bad news. My wife's step-father was diagnosed with a glio back in Feb. 2006. They immediately took him to surgery to remove as much tumor as possible. He has gone through all the chemo and radiation treatments. There are some alternative treatments that my wife discovered (she's an ICU nurse) while doing massive amounts of research that offer some signs of hope, but are not recognized here in the states. I don't recommend you go against the doctor's advice at the Mayo, but there may be some things your wife can take that work in conjunction to the treatment she will receive. My wife is working tonight but I'll try to get some info in the next couple of days to pass along. Don't get me wrong, I don't think there is a miracle cure floating around out there somewhere, but there might be some alternative stuff that may help extend her life expectancy. The doctors gave my step-father-in-law basically a year to live when they discovered the tumor. He will pass the one year mark next month and seems to be hanging in there rather well. He hasn't lost much quality of life yet. He does get tired more often and has some occasional lapses, but all in all is doing fairly well. Obviously every case is different, but I hope and pray for the best for you and your wife.

[CyberDyneSystems]

Oh Doc :(

I am shattered to hear this news. My thoughts will be with you and your beautiful wife as the two of you fight this new battle.

[mebailey]

Doc,
Iam very sorry to hear this news. You and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope she responds well to the treatment and has no complications.
Mike

[g-money]

Doc, Prayers go out to your wife and you. Stay strong she will need you to be her rock. God Bless both of you!

Greg

[ilovemycamera]

Doc, may you find comfort in knowing your potn family is praying for you and pulling for your wife. Please try to take care of yourself so you can be there for your wife.

[Jaime]

Words escape me, and would probably not be able to express what we all feel. Mr. Klepper, you and your wife are in all of our prayers, may God Bless you both.

[steved110]

I'm so sorry to hear this news, and I can feel the pain in every word you wrote. but I can also feel the love you hold for her, and it is in this that you will find the strength you need for the both of you, because you must. Gather your family together and be there for each other. Despair will turn to strength.

Yours is one of the names I look out for on this forum that means so much to me, and it is clear that I am not alone. We love you buddy, and if good wishes and prayers mean anything any more, there is a lot of it coming your way.

[DavidEB]

Doc, I'm so sorry this has happened to your wife. Your warm personality and fondness for people shine through in your words on this forum, and I know you will be her best support in the time to come. I know what glioblastoma is like, and I truly wish you all the best.

She will get the best possible care at the Mayo clinic, you're in good hands.

[misspix]

Doc, I am so sorry! :( There never seems to be the right words available in this kind of situation, please accept my best wishes and know that you and your wife are and will be in my thoughts.

[lisa1969]

My thoughts and prayers are with your family (hugs)

[BearSummer]

Doc,

I have no words.... Please know that you are both in my thoughts.

BearSummmer

[crn3371]

Only thread I've ever read with a tear in my eye. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife during this trying time.

[greg20d]

I know no words help ...but You r in our thoughts and prayers ...

[Mgdh]

Doc, I am so sorry to hear this news. Everyone else has said what I would like to say so much better than I could ever say it. I have prayed for you both and will keep you both in my prayers.

God bless.

[Eagle]

Doc, I haven't a clue what to say, just remember your second family is always here at POTN when you need to talk. I'll keep your wife, you and your loved ones in my thoughts and prayers. Good Luck.

[goforphoto]

It is never easy to learn that some one you love has cancer or any other serious medical problem. I lost my father to cancer back in April and it was one of the hardest things I have ever went through He fought a good fight for 3 years and never gave up, he pushed himself to live life the way he wanted and never slowed down untill the very end. My heart goes out to you and your family. You must be strong and both of you need to fight with every last fiber of your being, it will be tough on you but you must fight.

One suggestion for you is to join a support group, being around those in a similar condition will give you comfort in knowing you are not alone.

[JAZZ D.P.G.]

My sympathies and absolute best wishes.
Your strength will be your wife's strength, your compasion and support her life line.
My prayers for you both.

[SoaringUSAEagle]

Wow I am at a total loss for words Doc.

You'll be in my prayers along with the love of your life plus so much more :)

- Jeff

[TammieO]

I can't imagine what you and your wife are going through right now. Give your wife a BIG POTN HUG from all of us!

[Ballen Photo]

Doc, You have my thoughts and Prayers for Her recovery.
-Bruce

[SuzyView]

Doc, she is a beauty and will be always. I understand the pain just a little as I watched my son suffer through his Crohn's Disease a few years ago, not knowing about the prognosis. I think it is harder to watch someone you love go through this than if it happened to you. My prayers and thoughts are with you. You have a love that will never end, and will indeed grow deeper as you go through this together. Cherish the time together, a good lesson for all of us.

[rhys]

The world can change in an instant. The doctors will try their best. The best for your wife is for yo to maintain a positive mental attitude. Believe she will recover and she probably will.

If it helps, one of my best friends died some years back after receiving a liver transplant that was designed to save her life. Her body may have passed away but her spirit lives on. I feel Andrea's presence every now and again at critical points in my life. She has appeared before me in times of peril and guided me to safety. Whatever happens your wife will always be with you even if you can't always touch, see or feel her.

[Karl C]

Doc, I'm sorry to hear about your wife. I know mere words cannot soothe the pain, suffering, fear, and anger you both feel right now. I can relate. At 72, my dad had a benign brain tumor removed and spent 19 days in ICU, almost dying a couple of times. He's no longer the same and, at times, it is still hard for my family to accept and live with.

Hang in there and take one day at a time.

For the rest of us, this is a reminder to NEVER take life for granted because it can end in a heartbeat.

[dlpasco]

Doc,

You and your wife are in my prayers.

There is a sign in a business in Sheridan and I think that same sign could be on the POTN banner:

There are no strangers here, only friends we've not yet met.

Dan

[Citizensmith]

I'm really sorry to here this and hope you all the best.

We just lost my mother-in-law who was on her third bout of cancer. The first time it was diagnosed was a brain tumor, but she survived it and that was a long long time ago. I wish you all the best and just know it is something that can be beat.

[blonde]

i can't tell you how sorry i am Doc. i can't even imagine what is going through your head right now but the important thing is for you to remain strong so your wife can lean on you. i will be saying a prayer for your wife this week and i will also make a small donation to my synagogue on her behalf. tell your wife that even though she doesn't know us, we are all here for her and we are all wishing the best for the both of you.

[rpolitsr]

I hardly can say something that was not already said. I am with you. From what I have seen at my home, I can tell that she might be stronger than you on this, and you must be strong enough to support her. Probably your love will grow even more, share your love, share your fears and never lose the hope.

[Airedale1]

Very sorry to hear this Doc. I will pray for her.

[Mike R]

I can't imagine what you and your wife are going through, not to forget the rest of your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Phil Light]

I'd like to say thank you for sharing such a personal moment with us, and helping us keep what is truly important in life in perspective.

[ctgirl]

I am so sorry to hear your news, I wish there were words to say to help you and your family. I lost my mother to cancer in November, it's a hard and emotional road but enjoy your time together that's what keeps the battle worth fighting. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

[Skrim17]

Sending positive energy your way Doc, my thoughts are with you and your family.

[Glenn NK]

I'm proud to be part of this community - it cares.

With all the others here, I am thinking of you and praying for you.

[johnnybfan]

Doc, I'm so sorry to hear your news. I will pray for both of you. I truly believe that God will [U]never[U] give you more than you can handle. Remember that when you need someone to comfort you or to pick you up when you fall, that He is always there to hold to. Lean on Him as much as necessary. Use you friends and family as well.
Let's all pray that the radiation will kill the cancer so that she may live a long and fruitful life. God bless you both.

[marie]

you both are included in my thoughts and prayers every single day

[rklepper]

I am truly moved by all of the outpouring of support. I knew this was more than just a forum, it is really a community. We are now starting to come to terms with the disease and have vowed to fight it with all we can. I want to thank each and everyone of you for your support, it makes things a little easier. I probably won't be on here much in the coming months, except maybe the sell forum, as we will be busy with her treatment, but just know how much your thought and prayers mean to us.

[Miniflash]

Be of good courage Doc ..Take it one moment at a time and know "love is eternal" Your in my highest thoughts and your not alone ~

[TeeJay]

Doc, I read your first post, and my jaw dropped and body froze. I don't know what to say. I feel I know you - as I do many hundreds of other members of this great community of ours. It's strange the way the internet keeps us separated, yet brings us together, as though we are one big family.

Its your family that will help you and your Wife though this most difficult time. We can only imagine the hurt you are feeling at the moment, but as time passes I'm sure you will both find the inner strength to cope with what life has thrown at you.

Keep strong Doc, your Wife will need her own as well as your strength in the coming days/weeks. Take strength from those around you, and your friends here on POTN.

My prayers and thoughts are with you both. Keep strong.

TJ

[august23]

I really can't say much other than what has already been said. Like some others, I really don't know you, but I feel as if I do. This community is here for you, and while that may not be much, it's something. Your never alone, you always have somewhere to turn to, even if thats a POTN forum. We're here for you in every and any way that we can be. So even though you and the POTN community really don't know me that well, my heart goes out to you and your wife, I pray nothing but the best outcome for both of you. I'll be sure to have you and your wife's prayers spread to my local church. Good luck and God bless.

[mavericksupersonic]

Doc, You and your wife are in my prayers. Hopefully she will make a full recovery. I have lost a few people in my life very suddenly and I would have given anything to spend more time with them. I know you will make the most of the time you have together. Stay strong and i will keep praying for both of you.

[Big WIll]

There is nothing i can say or do personally but from experience, please check out.

http://www.canceractive.com
ring them up (UK Phone Number)
They're no ordinary charity... I have worked with them... They can produce personal prescriptions and alsorts etc. Geoffrey Boycott, Very Famous English cricketer used them and look at him now, he has stated he owes his life to them!

Hope that helps somewhere.

[BobOh]

Doc,
I don't know you, other than through this forum, but I'm typing this with tears in my eyes. I don't know what else to say other than my heart and prayers go out to you and your wife.

Bob

[JCR]

Mr Klepper I'm so very sorry to hear this, i'm trying hard to find words to help you but I know there are none.
I have been through this tumour deal twice in my life, once myself and once for my daughter, just wanted to say I know how you are feeling and you both have all the positive thought I can throw your way.

Be Strong.

[Kadath]

Doc, sending good vibes your way, peace to you and your wife!

Sam

[Ferrari 1]

Doc, I read your recent post about not being on much, except on the "Sell" forum. I would be most happy to offer to send some funds your way. I don't know you, personally, but if enough people got together, not only can we make a "prayer" difference, but we might be able to make a financial difference as well. Please don't be offended, just trying to do all we can to help.

[memorex88]

Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.

[johnnybfan]

Doc, I see that you're now at the Mayo Clinic. We're all going to pray that God will use His power to cure your wife's cancer. And that you, yourself can find the peace and strength to see this through. Not to start a sermon or anything but.....learn to lean on Him. Let Him bear some of that weight that's on your shoulders and let Him comfort you and your wife. God bless you both.

[sqjaw]

Doc: Its with heavy heart, that I write this ,the only thing that I can say to you is [Please ] enjoy each moment you too have together, In away but different I've been there, yes in these situation we must worrie a lot but do your best to enjoy each other in this time of need, and yes take some time to your self and her and any family you may have ! All my hopes and prayers are for you both::(

[Wader55901]

Mr. Keppler,

I am a newbie on this site. I was searching the forum to see if anyone had posted pictures of the Mayo Clinic. I came across your post and am very sorry to hear about your wife. I actually work for Mayo and know that she is in one of, if not the best, medical facilities in the world. I hope all is going well for you and your wife and I am praying for both of you in your time of need. Enjoy your time together and stay positive above all else.

Good luck and my prayers are with you.

Wader

If you need someone to help you navigate around Rochester just PM me.

[Tsmith]

Truly sorry to read this Doc _ my prayers are with the both of you.

[cosworth]

I married the only woman in the world that would marry me. If I were going through the same I'd take as many pictures of her as possible and try to understand how she would feel.

Be strong friend.

[tazzman270]

May god give you the strength to be strong for her and yourself in this time of need.

[italianfemmy]

Wow Doc, I feel so much pain for you that it has brought me to tears. I lost my mother to cancer 3 years ago and still every day is hard. You haven't posted in a while so I hope that's a good sign and that things are getting better and you are spending every minute helping her heal. If not, then I from the bottom of my heart feel for you. If you ever need someone you can talk to that can relate to what you are going through, I am just a PM away. If there's anything else you need, let us know. I am praying for both of you.

[Mike]

Oh my. I got married a few months ago and I can't begin to imagine how it feels to be going through such a terrible time. My thoughts are with you both.

[Gordeez]

That blows big time man.
I dont really know what to say..

[Beau Hudspeth]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.

[rklepper]

My wife passed away of complications related to her condition. I have no idea if life can ever be the same or even ever be bearable. I want to thank everyone for the support given throughout this period. You should be so proud to be part of this little community here. I am going to close this thread as I am not sure I can bear to be on here. Again, thanks.

[Belmondo]

I will honor Doc's wishes and close this thread. Those who might like to pay your respects to Doc, please do so by PM.

Tom