Michael_Lambert
12th of November 2008 (Wed), 08:44
Hey guys,
As some have read in previous threads of mine my sister in-law got married a couple of weekends ago and i did stay out of the hired pros way and was a good little boy!
However the one shot they truly wanted they did not get from the hired pro, He rushed them through all the staged shots and formals and then due to a mix up with the seating arrangements ( The hall forgot to setup a table for the photog, DJ, MC and wedding planner and her staff) the hired pro was really irritated and seemed to get the bride flustered something i had not know about until this weekend. So the one shot they did want i ended up getting for them later in the evening well after the hired had left for the night.
The problem is now she wants that shot used for there thank you cards as i don’t think its the greatest shot in the world she feels it captures all the essences of her wedding and what she wanted it to mean. So she wants to use my picture however she already bought and paid for the package from the hired pro which includes thank you cards.
I have explained to her that i did not think it was right to take my picture to her photog and have him use it for the thank you cards. However she seems insistent on doing this.
I am looking for input from our pros here on what you would do, ideally you want them using your shot however if they provide a shot that you did not capture would you use it? Or am i thinking its not as much of a taboo as i think it is.
Just for wondering this is the shot she has fallen in love with.
http://www.michaellambertphotography.com/sankawedding/8.jpg
As some have read in previous threads of mine my sister in-law got married a couple of weekends ago and i did stay out of the hired pros way and was a good little boy!
However the one shot they truly wanted they did not get from the hired pro, He rushed them through all the staged shots and formals and then due to a mix up with the seating arrangements ( The hall forgot to setup a table for the photog, DJ, MC and wedding planner and her staff) the hired pro was really irritated and seemed to get the bride flustered something i had not know about until this weekend. So the one shot they did want i ended up getting for them later in the evening well after the hired had left for the night.
The problem is now she wants that shot used for there thank you cards as i don’t think its the greatest shot in the world she feels it captures all the essences of her wedding and what she wanted it to mean. So she wants to use my picture however she already bought and paid for the package from the hired pro which includes thank you cards.
I have explained to her that i did not think it was right to take my picture to her photog and have him use it for the thank you cards. However she seems insistent on doing this.
I am looking for input from our pros here on what you would do, ideally you want them using your shot however if they provide a shot that you did not capture would you use it? Or am i thinking its not as much of a taboo as i think it is.
Just for wondering this is the shot she has fallen in love with.
http://www.michaellambertphotography.com/sankawedding/8.jpg