Gotta rant for a sec

[swatcop169]

Me and this girl have been dating since September and things were going great and then last saturday night was the last night I talked to her, I haven't heard from her, I tried to get in touch, called all friends, went to her dorm, and everywhere else I could think of, no sign of her. Well I get a call tonight and my buddy asked if I had heard from her and I said no, not since last saturday, he said well thats probably because she got married sometime this week. I was like WTF. She was out for spring break and was suppose to go to FL with her best friend, I'm finding out now that that might not have happened.


CN: Dated girl since september, things were going great, talks of longer relationship, talked last saturday, haven't heard from since, found out tonight she got married sometime this week.

[tim]

That's extremely odd, I feel for you. Honestly though, given her behaviour, you're better off without her. How'd you like to have been the other guy who probably doesn't know and married her?

[swatcop169]

That's extremely odd, I feel for you. Honestly though, given her behaviour, you're better off without her. How'd you like to have been the other guy who probably doesn't know and married her?

Yea, at this point I just don't know what to feel, sad, mad, happy, or what. Mixed feelings for sure.

[Moppie]

Damn. Mate, not really a lot you can say, except be glad your not the guy she married, and chalk it up to experiance.

[swatcop169]

Yea the other bad part about it is she hasn't even called to say FU, bite my butt, or anything else. I've went a week without knowing anything, I didn't know if she was dead, in the hospital or anything else.

[CyberDyneSystems]

Ouch,. that's just harsh..
Hang in there man,. your the best off of the three..

[FlipsidE]

DID NOT see that coming. Dude, I'm sorry. That's not cool at all :(

FlipsidE

[swatcop169]

Thanks guys. I'll work through it.

Hopefully I'll get good news this week about shooting some hooters girls.

[Moppie]

Thanks guys. I'll work through it.

Hopefully I'll get good news this week about shooting some hooters girls.



You know, your one of the few guys on this forum whos proffesion could read to a missunderstanding when useing the term "shooting" :D :D :D


Either way Im sure it will more than help you get over your current prediciment.

[swatcop169]

You know, your one of the few guys on this forum whos proffesion could read to a missunderstanding when useing the term "shooting" :D :D :D


Either way Im sure it will more than help you get over your current prediciment.

Yea just don't know a better term for it at the time :lol:

[tim]

Yea, at this point I just don't know what to feel, sad, mad, happy, or what. Mixed feelings for sure.

Sadness is understandable, as it mad. Relieved should be up there though.

[swatcop169]

In a way I am relieved, but I dunno. Just alot running through me at this point.

[tim]

That's normal. Would I be out of line to suggest a few drinks with some friends?

[swatcop169]

That's normal. Would I be out of line to suggest a few drinks with some friends?

Either tonight or tomorrow night, most likely tomorrow night since its a friend's birthday.

[Claire]

Auch, now that is just terrible! Not to mention she's a coward. Hang in there. You'll go through all the emotions, and they're all valid. Go and have fun with friends tomorrow. And I agree with the others, you're far better off than the guy she married who probably has no clue. *HUGS*

[swatcop169]

Auch, now that is just terrible! Not to mention she's a coward. Hang in there. You'll go through all the emotions, and they're all valid. Go and have fun with friends tomorrow. And I agree with the others, you're far better off than the guy she married who probably has no clue. *HUGS*

Yea he probably doesn't have a clue. Guess I didn't either

[Skip Souza]

Friend, you didn't get dumped. You got LUCKY!

[neil_r]

Friend, you didn't get dumped. You got LUCKY!

True, as long as she does not still have your Canon....

N

[Skip Souza]

True, as long as she does not still have your Canon....

N

You only pay for the Canon once.

[Kinger]

I say send her and the happy groom a nice gift saying congrats from your "Current Boyfriend"

But that is just me, I have been cheated on like that before (though not have my ex get married, but she did get pregnant while dating) so I might have a more bitter attitude about the whole thing.

[JAZZ D.P.G.]

Not telling your special other about spending on camera equipment is one thing, but man, this is a serious breach of integrity.

Hang tough and it will pass by. We feel for you here.

Best revenge right now is to have a happy life, and then LYAO when you meet her again years down the road.

An afternoon with Hooter girls is a good step in the right direction.

[swatcop169]

Thanks guys, I woke up in better moods this morning so we'll see how the day goes :)

[Claire]

Good you feel better. Now go out and take pics of Hooter girls! :D

/Claire
P.S Btw, what's so special about them anyway? :s I've been to Hooters once in US. The girls weren't that hot. Been to the British version too - Honkers (love that name!) - and they weren't all that either.

[FlipsidE]

Claire,

Sometimes you get lucky, sometimes you don't. At some Hooters, there are only skanky slutty girls. At others, there are some very attractive ones. It all depends on the Hooters you go to and on what day.

FlipsidE

[Claire]

Flipside,
I thought that goes for all places you visit. It all depends on the time and place. And of course, personal taste. ;)

[cactusclay]

Nothing happens by mistake. I think the Gods were looking out for you. Can you imagine being with someone like that for years and then finding out what they were really like.

[swatcop169]

Nothing happens by mistake. I think the Gods were looking out for you. Can you imagine being with someone like that for years and then finding out what they were really like.

Yea I'm a firm beliver in things happen for a reason.

[marie]

Yea I'm a firm beliver in things happen for a reason.

yes, even meeting her

am really sorry to hear what happened



maybe it is only a rumour about her getting married
you know how 'friends' can do that kind of thing ?
for one reason or another
http://www.photography-on-the.net/forum/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif

can you wait for a while about thinking all kinds of things
until you find out for sure ?
it all seems a little strange
especially as she never mentioned anything to you



wishing you well

keep us posted if you can

[roanjohn]

YIKES!!! That is rough!!! I think you're doing the right thing by venting and talking it over with other people. As mentioned, you are lucky that this happened so early in the relationship, before you invested any more of your time and emotions. In any case, one relationship that never goes sour is your relationship with Canon........so go buy your special someone some nice accessories with red rings around 'em.

:-)

Ro1

[Conk]

Did you ever get photos taken with the two of you together? Things have a funny way of getting into the mail. :twisted:

[swatcop169]

Well went out last night, was a my buddy's birthday and boy did I get wasted, never do that again :) Didn't get to sleep till 8 or so this morning.

[Ballen Photo]

Damn. Mate, not really a lot you can say, except be glad your not the guy she married, and chalk it up to experiance.

Words of Wisdom here. She sounds like trouble, as well as being thoughtless about your feelings. Better you found out this way rather than the hard way. :rolleyes:
-Bruce