I am in the same boat as you. I have been running a SLOWLY growing wedding and portrait photography business for the past 4 years. I just finished updating my webpage with new work yesterday and having read this thread and a few other I think I have to start again.
I would love some feed back on my site - www.dndphotocreations.ca
P.S. Great Idea on bringing prints to the companies that made the Items, I am defiantly going to give that a try at every wedding that I do this year.