as I suspected, the dynamic range here is not that great, except maybe in the deepest shadows, but since those aren't the subject, it is often better to leave them with little detail. Same could be said for the sky, which is why bringing it out too much is distracting.
so here I have the image in photoshop and have placed two color samples on the image. One is on the barn, hard to see at the bottom right of the info palette and the other is in the sky. The info palette shows the color under each labeled as #1 and #2. The numbers by each R, G, and B are before / after - in the first image there has been no adjustment so they are the same.
Once I opened the Curves dialog box (on the right of the screen cap) I control clicked (mac) on both color samples to set the little dots on the diagonal line. Doing this allows me to adjust each "color" somewhat independently. This is vastly different than just boosting exposure which would end up with blown highlights as in your post #6
Again the first pic shows no changes.
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the second pic shows how i moved the #1 point upward to lighten the colors in that range. Note the difference in the before/after reporting of the color samples in the Info palette.
this image shows a smaller "after" screen grab pasted over top of the original "before" image so you can see that the barn is much lighter but the sky has not changed. So the conclusion you should draw, if you haven't already

is that global corrections are good to get in the right neighborhood, but using more specific controls allows you to move certain values and colors around generally more naturally than going with a HDR look.
PS. if i had wanted to darken the sky a bit, i could have moved that other point on the diagonal line down or even gone to the point in the upper most right hand side to darken even the brightest highlights.
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