Camera set in AV @ -2, flash probably at +1/3 bounced overhead. ISO 800, 1/100th at f/4. You can see I'm quite close to them in this shot.
(And my wife was just shaking her head at our little actor. :lol
Camera set in M, metered the background and set the exposure to underexpose by 2 stops, flash at +1/3 bounced overhead. Taken at 8pm with no lights other than the Christmas tree lights on in that room. ISO 800, 1/60th at f/2.8.