I would suggest staying away from these ebay "canned" packages, they throw in a bunch of junk accessories to make it all look great for the money.
In all honesty, there are 3 lenses I would consider a starter's trinity, the 18-55 IS, the 55-250 IS, and the 50 1.8. These 3 lenses will allow for a multitude of shooting conditions and should be pretty cost-effective. Just use higher ISOs with EC+1/3 if you need faster shutter speeds with the first two lenses.
The one lens to rule them all doesn't quite exist, but I have heard probably the best comments from the Tamron superzoom, I cannot remember which one it was though, I think there are a few.
I think it might be this one, but it is pricey.
Here is a different body+28-135 on ebay, not sure if the price is a good deal (I don't know the conversion rate nor what normal prices might be there), but it doesn't have all the "padding" and the price reflects it.