Three Guys, i do see the difference and I'm not saying someone'se elph 100 is going to take the same photos as what you can deliver. However, a lot of people have decided that they do not need the types of shots you deliver. There are only so many one can place on a wall at the end of the day and the rest get placed in a safe location only seein the day of light once in a while.
When people look back at the photos or the wedding they'll think what beautiful dress they had on, who was there, the things said, or how they felt or went on the honeymoon after. They'll do this looking at snapshots taken by aunt mildred the same as if they look at your photos. To be honest, i'vbe heard a lot of people talk about their weddings and how well it went, the food they ate etc, but i've honestly never heard anyone talk about the guy taking the pics. Sure they will love the photos they get, but in the grand scheme there are far more memorable things that people will have in their minds. I'm not trying to diminish yours or anyone else's work. just saying it's low priority for a large number of folks out there.