No, I wouldn't want their pictures, but if I read right, he was saying that guests aren't allowed to shoot if he is shooting. -Edit- maybe I read wrong... It was just the impression that I had gotten. I just re-read it.-
Yes, we do our job, but we shouldn't only do that; try to be a nice guy, be easy to get along with. Sometimes being a nice pro gets you a whole lot farther than being a stuck up pro. I imagine not allowing guests to shoot at all would make people quite unhappy. Picture the bride down the road, talking to a friend who is getting married:
"He had amazing photos, but his attitude, well, something just put me off..."
"He had us laughing the whole time we were doing the formals, and he got some fantastic shots."
Which do you think the bride-to-be would choose?
It's unenforceable anyway, so there's really no point in having such a policy.