update to the update
i found a replacement (genuine part with canon number) on ebay for $90 + $5 shipping...
went digging deeper on the net and found the exact same part number'd part at a parts place but i had all manner of trouble creating an account. i was more interested because it was listed at $56, but i had to have it ready to purchase to find out shipping.
there was NO phone number listed on the website only an email address to contact them. i plugged the address into the web and found a DIFFERENT place, same address but it was a warranty repair place, with an 800 number. when i called them, they referred me to parts and the tech said, "its not really a retail site, thats why you cant create an account." i told him what i was looking for, he double checked and said they did have it on hand and the price shown was actually their price per unit. "he said he would sell it to me but they needed some markup, and offered it at $65 +$10 for shipping. this was on wednesday.
i got the exact part i needed UPS today and it fit as designed and it pops when i test it. it fires from the camera as well...
im all good now...
-im just trying. sometimes i succeed