
The 17-55 IS solves this with f/2.8 and IS! Also keep in mind that IS wont really help with action shots while the 2.8 will.
While true, 55 still isnt long enough sometimes :P And sometimes, even f/2.8 isnt enough which is where a prime comes in handy
As for the op, I'd get the 17-55 and add 85 1.8 down the road.
Not true, The kitty was close yes but the rest of those were quite far, Especially the owl where i did indeed have to crop anyways even with the extra length, at 55 i woulda probubly had to forget doing anything...
And as stated, f/2.8 may not be the perfect solution, For instance with my dog her nose was already quite out of focus even at f/5, f/2.8 half her face would likely be out of focus and that wouldnt necessarily make a good picture...
Also if you like to get close to subjects and the 17-55's MFD and MM arent so good...
And I still maintain the difference between 55 and 85 is worth it, I was NEVER satisfied with the length of the 17-55...just like i was never happy with the myriad of 28-80s i had [Excepting the Sigma 24-70 I briefly owned..]