I do have a good flash and i'm going to be purchasing another very shortly.
as far as crop cameras go, the T1i is a very capable camera and I am comfortable with it as my backup. It's not a "pro" body but the results I get with it have been great.
I understand photographers have gear restrictions for their own different various reasons. I'm fine with that. I was just a little caught off guard yesterday. Having said that, i'm still very happy with my camera body choice of the 50d. Thank you all for your input which has helped me alot.

