Good grief NO, a beauty dish on it's own is a wonderful tool, I have a 22" Mola that I use a Speedotron grid which cost me close to $200 from my local store and I use the grid occasionally but the beauty dish by itself is such a wonderful tool.
I use the Grid occasionally but I use both my 22" and 33.5" beauty dishes all the time. I do not think that they look at all like what I get from an umbrella. I do dearly love to feather a BD way over to the edge and don't have a grid for the larger BD and have yet to feel like I need one.
It's a style thing, grids are neat but not the only answer, if you can get one, it extends the use of your dish making it more versatile. If I start carrying my 22" out on location then I'll get the Kacey grid because it's a lot lighter and thinner than mine and will fit into my Kacey case.
I also have the white cloth diffusion socks for both of my beauty dish's because they came with them, that does give a BD the effect of being more like a small umbrella, but I have only used them a couple of times. All of these options change the light from a little to a lot. I also have one of my Elinchrom strobes fitted with an Elinchrom satin white glass dome which diffuses the light before it hits the beauty dish or goes through the central white opal disc. This gives me a nicer look when doing extreme feathering. The combination of all of these things simply give me options but the basic dish is the main thing for me. Some like to use grids all the time, it goes with what they want to do. It's the second option I would go for with the satin white diffusion dome being the first, but that's just me and what I've found by experimenting and getting all of this stuff and sorting it out as I go.