Oh, in many cases when I use a flash, there's plenty of ambient light too. That's why I'm using the flash, to do something about the shadows.
This happens both out- and indoors, but perhaps more often outdoors. This is one example of an image
, which would have looked dull if there was not some flash light added.
P mode is unpredictable only if you don't pay attention to the dashboard in the viewfinder. There you can see which shutter speed and aperture it will select. Since P mode never goes slower than 1/60 s, it's "unpredictable" in such a way that when you pass the limit where the ambient can't be properly represented with 1/60 s, the background will start getting darker. When it gets brighter, it will close down the aperture, and only the aperture when passing the shortest sync speed, often 1/250 s.
But all this is how it works, so in a way it's just as predictable.
Apart from this, I agree that using M with flash is often easier than an automatic mode, in spite of how it sounds.