Sorry for starting another new thread on this topic but I didn't want to hijack another member's thread with my question. 
I've spent waaaay too much time reading the various threads that talk about both of these fine lenses and looking at the awesome shots that you all have taken with them, but I'm still torn as to what lens is right for me and my somewhat limited budget. I'm a total amateur and doing this as a hobby.
I have a T1i with the 18-55mm IS kit and 55-250mm IS lenses. Most of the time I'm shooting "kid stuff"...my 9 year old daughter's school activities (plays, musical recitals) and sports (outdoor soccer and softball and indoor basketball) and my 1 year old son doing what adorable 1 year old's do. I'm also shooting things like trips to the zoo, family parties, my wife's 5K/10K races, etc. That's probably the extent of my photography needs, with the possible exception of maybe some more outdoor/wildlife photography as spare time permits (HA...spare time...that's funny).
I've read the various pros/cons of both lenses. The Sigma wins out for f/2.8 and cheaper price, but it's heavier and from what I've read here and on other review sites there's a chance of getting one with some QC issues. My wife will be using it for the softball games (I'm a coach and probably should be coaching instead of taking pictures) and I'm concerned about her handling it with the extra weight. The Canon appears to be incredibly sharp, is lighter weight, has IS and is an L lens, but is f/4 and a bit more expensive. Something about the $1000 price point makes it hard to pull the trigger...the Canon is over that and with the recent $150 price hike on the Sigma it's just about there.
Seems like I can't go wrong with either lens, but I'd like to get the "expert" opinions on which one is best for what I'm shooting.
Thanks in advance.



