An update:
I'm still in Paypal Hell. The money has not transferred in from savings. I called them and they said it bounced. I said WTF, as I knew enough money is in there. Turns out it's been trying to take the funds from a checking account that I had used on a previous transaction. I was sure I had chosen the savings account. Either it defaulted back to the checking via a glitch or I accidentally chose the wrong account. Either way, I got a $29 fee from the bank with the checking account. The transaction still said "processing" despite this. They told me it would try two more times before auto-canceling. I told them to just go ahead and kill the transaction and I would redo it. They said there was no way they could stop it. I suggested I delete that checking account from Paypal and they said that could not be done as long as a transaction was pending with it. Then I said I would delete my entire Paypal account to stop it, as I could just re-create it. They said no can do. You cannot delete an account if any transaction is pending. In other words, once a transaction has started, it's set to try 3 times and nothing can stop it. Arg!
So I checked with my bank to see what they could do, and they said they could not block it, that I would get hammered with that $29 fee two more times. I was pulling my @#$%ing hair out. You would think you could just kill an unwanted transaction at either end. The bank did waive one $29 fee, thank goodness.
So what I ended up doing was wiring money from my savings to that checking account in hopes of getting it there before Paypal's next hammer. Very frustrating. Paypal is not as flexible as one would hope. So one $29 fee is waived. If the money transfer beats Paypal's next hammer, I will have avoided all those bounce fees and the only cost from this hairpullerouter will be the $30 wire fee.
I've decided from now on to only associate Paypal with one checking account and to transfer money to that account from savings if need be before doing anything with Paypal. I hope this info is useful to people.
Paypal is a useful tool, but you it can also burn you if you're not careful.
Update: The wire-in has shown up. I've escaped this mess with only the $30 wire fee. Could have cost me $90.