Last try for now. The catchlights show that the dish is much closer now and I also lowered it a bit and feathered more too.
I think that after evaluating this subjects skin characteristics, I should use a softbox instead of the dish. Even after wiping my...err the subjects forehead with tissue, there is still a 'glow'. Personally, for a male subject, I wouldn't think a hot spot would be such a bad thing but you guys are the experts.
I have a couple of the grandkids coming over this weekend so I'll have some fresh guina pigs to work with. 
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