tim wrote in post #12514485
Your "size of subject in the frame" is an informal way of saying the lens length and distance to subject. You need to quantify things to make calculations.
All DOF calculators i've used take distance to subject as a parameter. They wouldn't take it if they didn't need to.
Nope, it's not informal, it's an easier method. You only need focal length and distance if the hyperfocal length starts to become significant.
You can try it for yourself. Select say a 2m subject, ie head to toe person standing, camera in portrait orientation.
Pick a focal length, say 50mm. Work out the distance you need to stand from the person to get them to fill the frame. Work out the DOF using one of the standard DOF calculators.
Now pick another focal length, say 200mm. Again work out the distance from the subject to get them to fill the frame. Again work out the DOF using one of the standard DOF calculators.
The answer will be almost exactly the same. Certainly close enough for the difference not to be important, relevant or even interesting.
If you can judge the size of the framed subject, or if the answer needs to be accurate measure it, and you know the aperture, you can work out the DOF.
Let's try it with the DOF calculator you suggested.
Let's make the camera subject distance 3m. Aperture f/2.8, 50mm on a 7D.
It says DOF = 0.38m
Now let's switch to 200mm, and move back to 200/50x 3m = 12m.
Plug in 200mm, f/2.8, 12m.
It says DOF = 0.38m
See, the same 
So I've changed the focal length, changed the distance, and got the same answer.
So what did I REALLY need to know?
The size of the framed subject and the aperture. And IMO the size of the framed subject is pretty easy when taking pictures of people. They are about 2m tall, head to waist about 1m, width of shoulders about 600mm.
The result is this table:

I don't use my table much these days because I just know what I want, but hopefully that simplification makes it easier for people new to thinking about DOF to understand that for taking pictures of people size things, it's easier than using a DOF calculator.