Intrusive, 
maybe to someone. But we are payed for bringing the best shots aren't we? What would hap en if you don't give the couple signing document shot or first kiss, oh yes you can bring a telescope with you right! Listen, this is the way I see it, you meet with the couple at least two times before the wedding one time at the signing of contract and second time two-tree-four weeks before the wedding. At this time you have plenty of opportunity to go over details with the couple, one of things is discussing about things like ceremony shots...... I agree that we have to be almost invisible but come on if shots like these are intrusive than I would not be willing to work with those kind of people, period!
