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i like the KISS ( Keep it simple stupid) meathod. 64" paraboic would work awesome on her example. BTW stupid was no way directed at michelle. We like what michelle and her husband do. My wife and i are a husband wife team as well.
Here is one using an 86 PLM, I had it back farther than necessary, but the light is so soft it gives a lot of lattitude.

Written like someone who has at least once had what they posted misconstrued! It never would have occurred to me that remark might be directed to me, that's how dense my skin is! 
. For outside use i would jump on an octa or turn a large softbox sideways. I broken a few umbrellas when outside:o

