I'm not a Mac user, so can only ask general questions. Doubtlessly a Mac/LR user will be along with more help!
Can you locate the image files using a system file/folder browser? Lightroom sets up its Folders based on your hard drive folder setup. If you need to import images, you will need the folder "known" by Lightroom which is other done durning an Import process or done in the Folders panel by doing an Add process and browsing to the needed folder.
So, to help people help you, please give details of what you are doing and have done and what you see in your system and in Lightroom.
By the way, I've heard that iPhoto has its own little ways of managing photos, and you are not along in having difficulties migrating from iPhoto to other photo apps. As you can see, Lightroom also has its "little ways" that are different from other photo apps. That's what gives each app some of the capabilities -- it's the things that are different. But, of course there is that dang learning curve that can be a headache!