Thanks guys, I desuatuarated a little as bub was really red in the face, so thats the washed out effect
In regard to the focus, thts something I'm really carefull with, the I used sective focus with the af poin always on her closest eye. Not sure why its coming out off focus!
I gues with that narrow a DOF, even a tiny movement would throw it off, althogh I checked photos as I took them and most of them the AF point was on the eyes. Would it be bub or me moving just ever so slightly or front/back focusing issues? IO thought I had the slight front focus issue fixed!