No mention of what you want to shoot.... that makes it hard to advise.
First I'd get 60D either with the EF-S 18-135 IS kit lens, or buy the camera body only and pick up a lightly used EF 28-135 IS off the local Craigslist (a whole lot of lens for $200, which is what they are going for in my area).
That's $1100 to $1200 spent, getting the camera from a reputible dealer with full warranty. You might save a little if buying body only, getting a refurb from Canon directly through their Loyalty Program.
Either of those walk-around lenses are pretty darned close focusing already. To experiment with macro, rather than get a dedicated macro lens right now, pick up a set of Kenko macro extension tubes for about $170. Those can be used to make any lens closer focusing, into near macro and macro magnifications with some. If you shop for these used, be sure to look for the "DG" designation if you think you might ever want to use them with EF-S lenses. The earlier ones that are only designated "CA/AF" are not EF-S compatible, can only be used on EF lenses. There are other, cheaper macro extension tubes. The Zeikos (also sold as Adorama ProOptic, Jessops, Vivitar, and more)... are about $100 and seem pretty good... but I'm not sure they can be used on EF-S lenses. The really cheap ones - under $50, sometimes even less than $25 - do not have electronic lens-to-camera contacts, so are a pain to work with... not much fun and not recommended unless very rarely used.
Only get the nifty fifty if you think you'll want to take occasional portriats. If you think you'll use it a lot, I'd suggest waitng and getting 50/1.4 (Sigma or Canon).... or if you find you use it more often, and 85mm (Canon f1.8 or Sigma f1.4).
If you have in mind more of a "standard" lens, then the Canon 28/1.8 or Sigma 30/1.4 would actually be a better choice (on the crop sensor of the 60D, this focal length acts more like the approx. 50mm standard lenses of film cameras in the past). My point, on modern crop sensor DSLRs, the old tried and true 50mm is no longer a standard lens... it's more of a short telephoto/portrait lens.
I'd suggest using the kit/walk-around zoom for a while, trying out the different focal lengths. You can tape the zoom ring in place and restrict yourself to a particular focal length for a day or two... or you can download software that analyzes your images and tells you what focal length you tend to use most.
What you might want to consider next really depends upon what you tend to do with your camera.
If you shoot scenics, cityscapes, architecture, etc., you will probably want a wider angle lens.
If you shoot sports, wildlife, for example, you would probably want a telephoto. If at all possible, get an IS (or equivalent OS) lens. Stabilization is most helpful on telephotos.
If you shoot portraits, then you'll likely want different lenses (such as those mentioned above).
A flash is a handy thing to have... If you need and use it. 430EX II is fine, but so are many others.... Used 420EX through 430EX I for example. 550EX through 580EX II are bigger and more powerful. 220EX through 270EX are smaller and more compact. There are also a lot of decent third party flashes available. The built in flash in the camera is pretty wimpy and in about the worst possible location, in relation to the lens axis, for redeye and ugly shadows. So, if you'll use it, an accessory flash can help a lot. I recommend considering a flash bracket of some sort and an off-camera shoe cord, so the flash can be moved even farther from the lens axis. A single flash with a an off-camera shoe also can serve for macro flash... there is no need to invest in an expensive dedicated macro flash initially.
Keep some of your budget back for memory cards, extra battery, perhaps some image editing software for your computer, extra RAM, or another hard drive for image storage. Photos take up a lot of space! I highly recommend books about digital photography and guide books specific for your camera, to most quickly and easily learn to use it well. Also, you might need a camera bag/backpack. And a decent tripod is a good thing to have.