not sure what exactly you are asking.
the coupling ring is fun to play with, but the focal disatnce is quite small.
indeed to set the aperture of the reversed lens, you have to mount the lens regularly, press the depth of field button and WHILE HOLDING IT, remove the lens from the body. The reversed lens is prefered to be wide open.
The smaller the focal length of the reversed lens, the larger the magnifcation and thusly the smaller the working distance of the group.
When you have the 55-250 with the 85 mounted reversed on it...you put the 55-250 in manual focus and you have to weave in and out until you get focus. There are some combos when the working distance is so small that the combination is impractical or even impossible (especailly considering that you have to add light in the mix!!)
I would suggest starting with the 55-250 at 55mm and the 85 wide open and start looking for a focal point. Please remember though that the depth of field is going to be very very very VERY small...so you will have that as a block as well.
then you experiment and play.
hope this helped