Hi,
So today I took the 2 year old to the fire station in his fireman outfit. I took my nifty fifty and the 85 f/1.8. I didn't take my flash, it scares me.
I knew with the nifty fifty I'd need a higher aperture to get crisp pics since I'd be wanting to get pics of him with the firetrucks, etc. I became frustrated when my on camera flash wasn't producing what I wanted and switched to portrait mode. Not only does it frustrate me to do that I missed a good crisp shot of his face in front of the fire truck because I couldn't focus on him. 
I've been analyzing the situation since I came home, at first concluded I need an L series zoom that is really fast but the truth of the matter is I just need to learn how to use this flash. If I'd had that I could have cranked my aperture up and been fine. 
So, how did you learn to use your external flash? I can read 3 books about it and still don't know how to apply it! I have such a hard time knowing what exposure I need/how to get it since a canon only meters based on the ambient light.
Should I just have set my shutter and aperture at what I wanted and the flash would have figured out the right output?
I really want to get my head around this. Thank you for your help!


