I don't know the settings on your computer monitor, but if I view a full size RAW file from one of my 7Ds on my monitor at 100% it's equivalent to looking at the image printed 4 and 1/2 feet wide (54") from a distance of approx. 18 inches.
Viewing distance remains the same in all cases, but with M-RAW it's same as if the image were printed 3 and 1/3 feet wide (40.5"). And at S-RAW resolution, it's as if the image were printed 2 and 1/4 feet wide (27").
So it's to be expected, that the highest resolution image will be the least sharp. Viewing each of them at 100% you are actually being 33% more critical of the RAW file, compared to the M-RAW... and fully twice as critical of the RAW comparing it to the S-RAW file.
Do a test yourself... Take three shots of the exact same subject... Preferably something with lots of fine detail. Make one at full RAW, the next as M-RAW, and the third at S-RAW. Now mnimally process each of the files exactly the same way, crop them all 50% (or so, just be sure to do the exact same crop on each) and print the resulting iamges all the same size on smooth matte paper. Compare those side by side. Prints made at the same size give you a much better idea of what the camera is capturing, than trying to compare on screen. And prints will give you much better evaluation, of actual image sharpness and detail.
7D does use a fairly strong Anti-Alias filter. I find I need to apply significantly more sharpening to bring out fine detail with the files from 18MP 7D, than I do with 50D (15MP) or 5DII (21MP) images. Both the latter appear to have much weaker AA filters.
The reason an AA filter is needed over a digital camera's sensor is to prevent en effect called "moire". That occurs when a pattern in the image sort of syncs with the pattern of the pixel array on the sensor, and causes whacky artifacts and effects. Google for "moire" and you'll see some examples.
7D needs a stronger AA filter than earlier cameras, because it uses one of the densest or most crowded sensors of any DSLR. It's got close to 54,000 pixels per square millimeter. For comparison, 50D has just over 45,000 (about 16% less), 40D has a little less than 31,000 (about 42% less) and the full frame 5DII has just over 24,000 (nearly 65% less crowded).
Exactly how much additional sharpening is necessary varies depending upon the final output or use of the image... But I'd estimate I use 50% to 70% more pretty regularly. (Less for small, low resolution images on the Internet... more for large prints, for example.)
The fine detail, and all the apparent "sharpness" that comes with fine detail and micro-contrast, is there... You just have to sharpen the files from the 18MP cameras more to bring it out.
To some degree, too, the very high density of the 7D's sensor can show up any flaws in lenses. You might say it demands better glass. This is true of any higher resolution camera. At some point as they become more and more dense with pixels, a sensor might be able to resolve more than a lens. Better lenses resolve more detail and will be a better match with higher resolution cameras. All three of your lenses are pretty highly regarded though... especially the 300/4 and 15-85.
You might want to do Micro Focus adjust for each of them on your particular camera. This dials in the focus of the lens to be as accurate as possible.
After doing that, shoot some more test shots with each of your lenses. Shoot a series of shots at different apertures and focal lengths, to learn each lens' optimal performance. Most zooms have better and worse focal lengths... For example you will likely find your 100-400mm is not as sharp at focal lengths out near 400mm. 7D at full RAW will show up any lens weaknesses more than a lower resolution RAW file, whether from another lower resolution camera or with 7D M-RAW or S-RAW.
And, most lenses are better stopped down a bit, to a middle aperture. They can be soft at their largest apertures.... and at their smallest smaller.
Diffraction is another factor, that occurs with smaller apertures. The size of the sensor and it's density are key factors here... For example diffraction starts to set in on the APS-C and 18MP 7D at f7.1... that's the camera's "Diffraction Limited Aperture" (DLA). Stop down more than that and smaller apertures will increasingly rob fine detail from the image, making it appear "soft" at high magnification. You probably won't notice it at f8, but will start to see a little if you look closely at f11, and it will be more obvious at f16 and probably pretty bad at f22. You have to balance the need for increased depth of field against any loss caused by diffraction.
For comparison, the DLA for full frame, 21MP 5DII is about f10. It's also about f10 for an APS-C 10MP 40D.
Once again, it might be useful to run some test shots with your camera at different appertures, to see and learn how diffraction effects the images. Just run a series of shots of a highly detailed subject (a weathered wood fence is a good target) from around f5.6 through the full stops down to f22, then inspect the images at higher magnification to see what happens.
Our job as photographers is to be aware of all these factors, and the specific idiosyncracies of each piece of gear we use, then work to optimize it, get the best results possible for any particular image we want to make. There's always compromise, balancing depth of field against diffraction, high ISO noise against adequate shutter speed, etc., etc. We have to adjust how we use our gear and even how we post-process our images, for different situation.
Sharpness alone isn't the only factor with images. In fact, it's not always desirable for an image to be "so sharp it makes your eyes bleed". Most older women do not appreciate portraits that show every little fine detail, for example.
But sharpness is often what people focus on (pun intended) and fret about, because it's one of the easiest nits to pick in your images.