monk3y wrote in post #13642015
haha hello

for some reason I can't stand them, I make it a point that when I go home I am only there for 2-3 days, and I hate parties where there are a lot of Chinese relatives and other Chinese friends, I feel like they are full of Crap

too full/proud of themselves
Of course, not all of them are like that... but generally they are or better yet WE ARE

Haha I share your experiences. What I've learned from three years in China, though, is that you just have to learn their culture and put yourself in their shoes. I don't agree with a lot of the Chinese values, especially the modern interpretation of them, but there is some good, useful stuff in there.
Just in case you're ever curious to delve deeper into your culture.