nich0145 wrote in post #13712183
Hi purpletiger, i might be the last person in this world that you want to ask as it's never been my style to light a subject evenly (yet) but i've read
this
recently so i figure it doesnt hurt to ask, have you thought of buying a big softbox?
See "What size is best" in the link.
Apologies if i'm not being helpful

Loved the link - cleared up a few things - looks like i need a BIG softbox!
ccp900 wrote in post #13712350
oh damn....my reading comprehension is really down! you did say you wanted to keep the background white as well.....i agree with the guys this would be hard to do with just 2 speedlites.
if youre not too fussy about PS work, maybe you can composite your wife lit by the 2 lites then the background...
I'm trying to get it right in camera as much as possible - I love PS but for creative fun stuff 
ccp900 wrote in post #13712285
well you did say flat, have you tried lighting from front one high one low?
That would mean placing the lights smack in the middle. Im using an 85mm equivalent lens (50mm on cropped body) and standing a ways back so the stands would be in the way.
SkipD wrote in post #13712298
What you will need is light sources that are either FAR away from subject or using HUGE evenly lit area (such as 3-ft by 6-ft softboxes or some huge reflector panels that you can light relatively evenly).
You probably will find that Speedlites won't do the trick very well simply because of the amount of light available from them.
You're going to need to light the background separately if you truly want it to look white.
I think I'm going to have to order at least a couple more flash guns!
JeffreyG wrote in post #13712329
Set two Speedlights shooting through diffusers on either side of you and push them close together so that there is only enough space to poke the lens through. This will give you even light from far away.
Then set the third speedlight on the ground behind the subject to light the background.
Tried that. I'm using umbrellas so there is that hotspot in the middle issue and uneven lighting at the top and bottom of the frame (darker). However, the 3rd light on the ground is a good idea! Definitely going to order more lights then. Best thing is the wife can't say no this time 
rudy_216 wrote in post #13712609
Have you got a white bedsheet(s)?
Try something like this. I did this for a different purpose but it may be a starting point for you. The speedlight(s) light up the diffuser (bedsheet) and directly lights the background. Place a reflector on the right side of the subject, or a duplicate of the left side, to fill that side. Keep your lights back in order to get enough even spread.
Yes I have a white background on a proper b/g stand. From the diagram I can't help thinking the subject might be brighter on the 'flash' side than the 'fill' side? I will give it a go anyway - very nice diagram btw.