Erik S. Klein wrote in post #13813042
hand over the camera and say "perhaps you're right. Have at it."

^ this. Actually did this as a soccer match once. A guy I know who shoots some games, commented on how he needed better gear so he could get shots like mine (he'd seen my work many times). I thanked him and told him he was free to give my stuff a shot if he wanted to which he took me up on. I knew what was next but had to see it. He searched and searched, looked embarrassed a little, then finally asked where the dial was with the green box. I naturally acted surprised he asked and told him my camera doesn't come with a green box or dial. His next question was how I made such nice images if I had to "guess" what settings to use all of the time. Being the semi nice person that I can be on occasion, I set the camera up for him and showed him how to use it. Next game I see him there without a camera and when I asked why, he said he gave up since even when he used my $5k worth of gear, he still didn't have any good shots. Obviously, I encouraged him to shoot more rather than quit and explained that its not gear that makes compelling images.
I know that's a long and drawn out story but its absolutely true and demonstrates (to me, at least) why its not the gear at all. There are many, many members here who's work I couldn't touch yet I have better gear and probably vice versa. Great gear can make for a sharper image or one with better low light IQ but it never makes an image more compelling, which, in my opinion, is the difference between a good shooter and an average one.
Bottom line, having great gear helps someone who's a good photographer. Someone who isn't is not likely to see much benefit between a 1D4 and point and shoot.