i'll apologise now because this is gonna be a long post, but please bear with me 
yesterday morning i recieved a message on facebook telling me that the photographer i spent last year second shooting with had used one of my shots on an advert. the advert was posted on facebook and was promoting couples sessions in the run up to valentines day.
she will be shooting them herself so i asked her to change the image on the advert because it isn't representative of her own work. but she maintains that because we were working together she has full access to any images i provided to her for weddings/engagement shoots, and as such can do what she wants with them.
our original agreement was that i would second shoot to gain experience and build a portfolio for myself, and whatever i shot was available for me to use for my own purposes. i have recently set up my own website and have used some of the images from these three weddings and the one engagement shoot we did together just as i had always intended. this seemed to cause a bit of tension at the time but i thought nothing of it at the time.
now after our argument she said i have till monday to remove any images from the time we worked together from my website and facebook page. i told her that they would be staying where they are and reminded her of our original verbal agreement but i would reference her/her site on any images i did use - which i thought was reasonable.
she seems to have forgotten that when we were shooting together she had the benefit of a free second shooter, free transport to and from the locations which i provided because she doesn't drive. the whole time we were working together her kit consisted of a 500d, 24-105 f/4 and the 18-55 kit lens along with a flash gun (actually she added a 50/1.4 for the last wedding) which i thought was sub-standard and told her so many times. she has since upgraded a 5d after using mine and seeing the resulting pictures but she is still woefully under equipped for the type of work she is taking on.
she shoots only jpeg but didn't know that there are different picture styles with adjustable settings
, i shoot raw so to accomodate her needs i shot raw+jepg giving her the jpegs and keeping the raw files for my own use. but when i asked her what here jpeg setting were so that i could use the same for consistancy she hadn't a clue what i was asking for! she has no concept of noise reduction or shapening and doesn't accept that raw is more usefull than jpeg.
the best i ever heard her come out with was that she split a cup of tea on an sd card and was really upset because it was and i quote ' a pro card and gave my images a real shine to them'. i showed this message to my girlfriend who almost spat her coffee out, she thought it was a joke! but from past experience i knew it wasn't lol
i'm going to wind up this essay of a post because i'm pissed off and i think it probably shows
so my question is this, would you use a photo taken by your second shooter for a promotion whch they won't be working on? or if you are a second shooter would you be happy for the main tog to use one of your shots for this sort of purpose? i've made my thoughts on this pretty clear and although it takes a lot to put me in a bad mood this has gotten under my skin in a big way.
i genuinely thought it would be a case of a couple of texts between friends to sort this out, but throught the course of events yesterday i think our working relationship is pretty much beyond repair unfortunately.



