OP,
The AF system of the 7D would give little benefit for the type of things you want to shoot. It's main advantages over the 60D are ability to track moving subject (sports/action) and customizability (for special situations... takes a while to learn when and where to use them). You also get slightly higher build quality... more metal, more seals, more AF points, 100% viewfinder... and more weight, bulkier shape with 7D. 60D isn't really smaller, but it feels that way. 7D has focus Micro Adjust, which 60D doesn't... probably most useful for prime lens and/or large aperture shooters.
60D uniquely offers the articulated LCD, locking mode dial, "joystick" that can be reached in either horizontal or vertical mode, lighter weight, slimmer feel.
The two cameras have same imaging capabilities... sensor, processor (7D has dual processors to allow higher frame rate). They also have same meterings system. 60D is rated for 100K shutter cycles. 7D is rated for 150K.
If the difference in price saved buying the 60D instead of 7D would allow you to buy a Canon 17-55/2.8 instead of a third party lens, that might be a better choice. For example, it's almost a guarantee that the focus performance of a Canon USM lens on 60D will be superior to the focus performance of a non-USM third party lens on 7D.
Either camera can do fine. With 7D you are buying and paying for more features you will likely never need or use, that in no way will "improve" your photography for the sort of thing you say you like to shoot. But it also won't disappoint.
I always put lenses far higher priority than the camera body. I'd much rather have a high quality lens on a simple, straightforward camera body.... than a cheap lens on a top of the line camera. Lenses make the image... beyond the basics of image capture qualities, camera bodies are just about conveniences and gimmicks.