Unless I have read different documents than what you seem to be debating, the goal isn't to use the eye for autofocus, but to be able to replicate what our eye/brain does.
And then, it has nothing to do with the eye measuring any distance to the subject. What have been researched is figuring out how our brain performs image analysis to compute the likely distance to a subject without our eyes having to hunt around changing the focus distance.
So a camera implementation would then use the direction we look to figure out what to focus on, and use the image sensor together with advanced image processing to compute how much the lens should focus forward/backward from current position. So it would be similar to the contrast detection used in P&S, but instead of having the system perform many intermediate focus steps in front of and behind the true target, it should be able to (similar to the phase detection) compute how much off the lens is and send an optimal command to the lens.
You would then get a camera that wouldn't need a phase detect sensor but would use the image sensor instead - so just as a P&S camera, you could point at the image to specify where to focus. With your finger on a touch screen or with your eye in case the camera have eye-control. Or maybe with a cursor moved by a joystick.
The traditional contrast detection can only measure better/worse. It doesn't know how good the current solution is. And it doesn't know if it is behind or in front. So it always requires lots of iterations - and these iterations will fail if the subject moves. So in the end, there are many lens refocus operations and in-between there are waits to get out more readings from the sensor.
A phase-detect system can compute how much the lens is in front of, or behind, the subject, unless the focus is too much off or there are too much repeating features that gives false matches. So it basically perform two readings. One to decide how much to refocus. Then after the lens have been given that refocus command, the phase-detect system makes a second check to verify that all went ok. That allows the lens to use the maximum focus speed to make the full jump, and are the reason for the extremely fast focusing speed of a DSLR when fitted with a lens with a quick focus motor.
OK. It looks like I got my posts mixed up and lost something along the way. There was an article or a patent that used the method I described above where the focus is determined by the distance that they eye was focused using the flexing of the lens of the eye and I really thought I posted it but as I scroll back I can't find it. I guess when I get home I'll have to see if I can find it and post it. Sorry for the confusion. I must be getting old. lol
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