As others have commented, fast lenses will limit your depth of field, but that's not the whole story. You can think of each pixel as a photodetector at the end of an opaque straw. If light doesn't enter the straw at the right angle, it can't get to the photodetector.
After quite a lot of experimentation, DxO Labs published results
that showed this behavior applies to all cameras. In the case of the 7D / 60D / T3i / T4i sensor, it was found that the sensor looses about a stop when the lens has an aperture of f/1.4. This means that even with f/1.4 lenses your camera cannot detect light that is coming from faster than f/2.
A second issue is that fast lenses often exhibit focus shift when they stop down. This leads to images that are softer than they need to be. Whether you like it or not, this problem happens during night shooting as much as it does during the day.
It seems reasonable then to look for a lens that is sharp at f/2 and which will not exhibit much focus shift. These are available but (not unpredictably) they're often expensive. I use the Zeiss 28/2, 35/2 and 50/2MP when low light performance is essential. Manual focus is not a problem - it turns out that manually focusing using live view and a loupe will outperform most autofocus systems in good light and almost all autofocus systems in weak light.
My recipe when I must shoot in low light is therefore
1. Open up the aperture bearing in mind the subject and the depth of field I need.
2. Crank up the ISO so that I can use a sensible exposure (with a 28mm lens on your camera it would be 1/60 sec if you practice reasonably good technique.) I find a monopod lets me get at least an extra stop here without having the bulk of a tripod. It pays to have looked at the best sensitivity / noise trade off for your camera - I can't speak for the T4i but the 5D2 has optima at 125, 250, 500 and 1000 ISO. Knowing this can win you a third of a stop for free.
3. Fix the resulting noise using Define, Noiseware or Denoise plug-ins. The denoising algorithms in Lightroom are pretty good but the aftermarket products are considerably better.
4. If I must, I will bin the image 2x2, 3x3 or 4x4 (which improves the noise by about 1, 1.5 or 2 stops respectively.) This is fine when you can live with a 5x7 print but you need to take care to frame the subject well - you can't crop the image and do this too.
Binning also hides some camera shake, so with 4x4 binning, you can easily use 1/f (seconds) hand held and 2/f (seconds) with a monopod.