I've had the 565ex for a few weeks now. It's almost magic... everything looks better. 
..but I don't understand how I should be using it. I have it set to ETTL mode, which is auto mode, right?
I keep the camera is manual mode... It seems that the flash is automatically adjusting to create an ideal exposure. My light meter is reading WAY underexposed, but it looks great after taking the shot. If it does overexpose, I either lower my iso, or I FEC down a stop or 2.
Is this how I should be using it?
Second question.. Is there any way at all for me to have faster shutter than 1/200 with the flash? I know it doesn't support HSS... but it there a different mode that I can use? (or something?)
Thanks so much!

