I used to have the same problem. I have 4 boys, all active, and couldn't catch them without blur. The truth is, you can try to do the faster shutter, higher ISO, but the lens is really the key. Get yourself a faster lens, about $300 and up, and you won't have trouble anymore (well, within reason). I have the 50 1.4 and it is fantastic! I also have the 85 1.8 and that is even better. I am a soccer mom and coach and those lenses, even in low light, work much better than even my 28-135 IS, which is supposed to take care of camera shake. Try the ISO thing first and shutter speed, then ask for a better lens. It's worth it. Now I have 4 boys, still active and I just keep chasing them down. Good luck!
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