stsva wrote in post #15205522
As gonzogolf explained, the camera exposure and flash exposure are metered and calculated separately. When using ETTL flash exposure, as he also notes you can select either evaluative or average in the camera's flash control menu. Generally speaking, evaluative will be better to use for fill flash, and average will be better to use when the flash will be the primary or only lighting. You may need to use flash exposure compensation in either case to get the exact flash exposure you want.
It made more sense to me (when I was trying to figure all this out) when I looked at the flash as piggybacking the cameras metering system. Flash has nothing to do with cameras metering system - evaluative, partial, center weighted, spot, etc but uses it for it's own purposes.
Like gonzogolf stated the flash uses Evaluative or Average which you can only change via the cameras flash menus (if your camera has that feature) and uses it only for flash, not the ambient light your camera is exposing for. I like stvas's explanation about what the flash's evaluative and average settings do. Gonna have to add that one.
Like apersson850 said the only way to get spot metering for you flash is using FEC. I don't use that myself but read that many photogs meter off the skin and compensate using FEC.I tried it but never really got into it.
So you are definitely on the right track. Flash is much more interesting and enjoyable once this starts to click for you. A great feeling when your control it rather than the other way around.