The photo that you linked to was shot with an 85 mm lens at f/1.2 and 1/320 at ISO 640 on a 5D2. The main reason the background is blurry is because of the f/1.2 aperture, a very wide opening. Secondary reasons are the distances involved - from the subject to the background and from the camera to the subject - and the focal length of the lens (85 mm). Your lens has a maximum focal length of 55 mm and at that focal length the largest aperture is f/5.6, a very much smaller opening. So you can't recreate the same photo exactly. In order to get an out-of-focus background shoot at 55 mm, f/5.6, but be sure your subject is as far from the background as is possible. You will probably find this difficult to do inside, so take your portrait subjects outside, but avoid shooting in direct sunshine where the shadows will be harsh and suppliment the natural light with fill light from your flash.