René Damkot wrote in post #15378660
You're out of luck: Sometimes there is no option

"soft" light needs a (relatively) big light source. That's not portable.
"Parabolic" or not is irrelevant in this case.
One option:
http://strobist.blogspot.nl …usinsanity-line-goes.html
Sunbounce also have a bigger version.
Or you can just bounce off the white T-shirt of the guy next to you

The "white t-shirt guy" works, but he makes way too much noise when I put him in the trunk of my car with the rest of my gear. One of these days, I'm afraid he'll escape.
That option does not seem very portable. I'm looking more for a run-and-gun type of setup.
dmward wrote in post #15378969
There are modifiers like the Westcott Apollo, and its knock-offs, as well as collapsible soft boxes like the Cheetah Q box that will provide large sourced light but they are not intended to be on the camera.
As mentioned, if you want the soft transition from highlight to shadow you have to go big relative to the subject. With on camera flash that means bounce. Ideally off a reflector you can control.
Those are good options for flash modifiers, yes, but they would probably require an assistant to move around. And in a crowded event, would be too cumbersome.
With regard to soft/hard light, many people often say "big source=soft light, small source=hard light". But I think it is more accurate to say that a large diffused light source gives soft light, because it is the diffusion that causes the light wrapping. I could take my 86" PLM and leave off the diffuser cover, and the light/shadow transition will be abrupt. Instead of a large diffused source, I am trying to achieve this "light wrapping" by having multiple smaller sources (2). And I think that two "spotlight" beams, roughly the size of a person's head, can accomplish this.
For example, I took two photos of a ball, with key light directly from the side of the ball and fill light on camera - one with diffusers, and one with bare flashes:
With diffusers:
Bare flashes:
The flash was set to 200mm for the second image, which is as close to a collimated beam of light as I could get. Although there is a big hotspot, I think it still looks decent, considering it's bare flash.
Now, if I somehow managed to get a modifier to take the flash output and make two collimated circular beams of light about 6-8" in diameter (one key, one on-camera fill), I think it would look really good. What I want, essentially, is a mini-PLM for my speedlights.