Well I broke down and just ordered an X-T3 and 35mm f2. I can't believe the features to cost ratio on this camera, especially with the current sale. I get a student discount at Adorama which dropped another $100 off of it.
Not sure why I held off on ordering it for so long. It's the only camera I can afford that does everything I want and then some. I wanted 4K with a headphone jack, while still being able to use the camera for photos. The Panasonic m43 cameras have the 4K and headphone jack, but horrible AF and poor lowlight performance. The Canon 90D has 4K and a headphone jack, but from what I've read has some horrible problem with autofocus tracking through the viewfinder so that's out. The Sony a6600 has all of those, but crappy APS-C lens selection.
The Fujifilm X-T3 not only has all of it, but so much more. Dual card slots will be great if I ever shoot a wedding (no plans but you never know). The EVF is supposedly really nice which I'm looking forward to, and goodness 30fps photos is ridiculous. Really excited for it!