I should have realized it wasn't the restaurants that have the problem, but the over-bearing customers.
I don't know what restaurants you guys go to, but I've personally never been to one that had every customer taking photos and creating a "flash-a-thon".
I'm also going out on a limb and suggest that you probably have an extraordinary sensitivity to white light, because personally, when I am concentrating on eating my food and talking to whomever I may be there with, a led light over in the other corner is of no concern at all (considering the light is pointing down towards the table).
You guys, seriously, over-acting much!
Like I said, a little bit from a P$S or a cell phone can be rude, but having people shoot with a DSLR?

