Would love some opinions on how to deal with a certain situation.....I'm hired to work a venue on most weekends where I capture "red carpet" type photos of arriving patrons as they show up for an evening event. During the event, I present the printed photos to them in a folio and offer them for sale.....and in general, I get about a 50% buy rate. The problem I have is that when I present the photos, there are always a few people who break out the cell phones and try to take photos of my photos.
I'm at a bit of a loss as in how to handle these individuals. On one hand, it really sparks an anger nerve as these people are basically making a blatant attempt to steal my work (which takes money from me and my family as the money I earn is based directly on the number of photos I sell) but on the other hand, I really don't think most are doing it maliciously.....it's just become so much a part of the culture to take a cell phone pic of something you like. I've went the route of simply ignoring it (which I don't like for obvious reasons) to asking politely for them to please not do it (which generally upsets the patron).
The photos I take are a perk offered to the people attending the event.....they can either buy or refuse. I can't risk upsetting people who've paid to attend the event (so I must step carefully). In today's culture, I'm sure this must be an issue for others covering events and printing on site.....so how have you dealt with this issue? What's the nicest way to convey that these photos are the way you pay the bills and taking photos of them with cell phones is simply out of line? I want to firmly convey the message but I want to do it in a very professional and non-threatening way. Suggestions?
Just to add....the people that attend these events are not usually people that are strapped for cash and I don't think their main drive is to avoid paying for the photos....they are mainly just attempting to share their activities on facebook or whatever else social networking site.

