Your alternatives (in no particular order):
1. Get a flash with its own Photosensor and Auto mode. It may be 2-contact hot shoe or dedicated to Canon hotshoe or even PC-cord connected to camera. You set the ISO in the flash and also aperture which matches the chosen aperture of the lens and simply point and shoot. Many flash units do this, some (like Metz) superbly.
2. Get a flash with no sensor and only manual mode. You use Guide Number for flash to compute aperture based upon subject distance read from lens (Aperture = Guide Number / Distance to Subject) Photographers did this 30 years ago.
3. Get a Canon ETTL flash unit, but the flash on ETTL mode and set the camera to P or M when flash is the main source of light for the photo. Set the camera to Av only when you want to use the flash as a fill light source, using ambient light as the key source of light.
Note that Solution 3 has had hundreds of photographers frustrated at a)unpredictability of ETTL, b) consistent underexposure when using the ETTL flash, c) inability to bounce flash rather than direct flash when using flash as main source of light, and d) many other ailments related to flash exposure accuracy. They are not insurmountable, but they are nowhere as easy to get accurate results as with Solution 1!