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I have no idea if I'll make it to where I am aiming - but why should my uncertainty stop me from trying? What physical reason does it give me to not try? None that I can see.
Feel free to take me up on any of the above. Happy to discuss it via PM, or however you want to.
Cliff
Cliff, valid thoughts. I would rather be a "loser" and learned something rather than being "safe" on the side without knowing whether I could have won...
There are however those of us who have other priorities and/or responsibilities in life, be it family, career, or whatnot which impede the speed in which they are able to achieve their goals. and at times, one or all of these priorities may seem like excuses.
There are times that I wish I was single again... to purchase a new set of mags for the car, a new camera body, etc... Things I could probably do even these days... However, family too comes first.
Like Tony, I have a mortgage, 2 sons going to school, paying for orthodontic braces... flying "home" to visit family every so often... so, I need to take things slower than most when it comes to "achieving" my goals.
Bottom line is, we all have our ways and means of getting to where we want to be... not just at the speed that some have achieved.
From what I see, Tony is in a state of uncertainty, not knowing fully well where he is heading for, and possibly not knowing (yet) how to achieve what he is aiming for. But I'm sure, when the light turns green he will be burning rubber...
That is the beauty of this forum -- we draw strength, and learn from others' experiences.
Ah just uninspired about photo taking at the moment. Not really unhappy about it, as I have been busy doing other things, which I am enjoying. Getting a bit fitter, losing some weight, and getting to know my wife better etc. So I've been taking a bit of a break from photography, and are just starting to come back to it. Photography has only ever been a hobby for me, something I do for fun. I have no desire to go pro or anything like it. If someone wants to pay me for a photo I take, great. If not, I don't really care. So if I get uninspired and feel like doing something else for a while, it's no problem for me.
You're not alone... we need to do a mini... when Tina gets back from Manila! Difficult playing Mr. Mom
Interesting discussion.
... I'm pleased I have gone down my path but it often makes you wonder what if?.
I think you've just got to be comfortable with what you are doing as long as it is in accordance with your aims, however, I like Tony's analagy of the traffic lights, hold on orange but if/when you get the green (your own personal circumstances), then go for it.
Mark, I can relate. And like you, I have asked the question, what if?... and it boils down to being happy with what you've got and/or making the most of it... if and when the circumstance present themselves.
I've learned that there is no right or wrong answer in ones approach to life -- we all approach it differently and it is what makes this forum interesting... it is what makes life interesting.




