Can someone please explain to me the best way to avoid specular highlights? You know, the big blotches of reflected flash on cheeks, foreheads, and noses.
I can understand why these blotches appear when I shoot my flash bare. But even when I am using big diffusers (like a softlighter or softbox), I still have problems with specular highlights.
Has it something to do with the positioning of the light? What on earth am I doing wrong? 
I'm sure all of you have faced this problem some times, so do you have any suggestions?




