I'm sure those of you who scour around the internet enough have seen (or contributed) to a fair amount of the kinds of photos I'm talking about. The best way I can explain it (and I'll image provide examples) is almost "grey" or "desaturated" (closest words I can find, but by no means correct), but at the same time, the image still has a lot of life. It's just all around really moody and subtle. I'm just kind of wondering what kind of post-processing goes into these kinds of photos? I've been trying to get similar results, but I can't seem to hit it where I want it. I feel like I get close, but fall short. I'm a heavy Lightroom user, but I also have Photoshop, but I don't really use it for post-processing photos.
These examples are from a photographer who actually got me into photography back when I was 13. The photographer is Jason Benjamin:
http://perfecthue.com …44686138_99bcd819ff_h.jpg![]()
http://perfecthue.com …68405856_7ad9b2b303_k.jpg![]()
http://perfecthue.com …G_9125_jason_benjamin.jpg![]()
http://perfecthue.com …/photography/IMG_5366.JPG![]()
http://perfecthue.com …/photography/IMG_7030.jpg![]()
The two in the URL below are ones I took. One is a selfie (:p) which I think gets kind of close, but falls short. The other is one that I took of my ex which I think is pretty spot on, but again, just barely falls short of what I'm aiming for.
http://imgur.com/a/Fo1if![]()
Does anyone have any tips or advice? Does anyone even know what I'm talking about?



