It answered it very well, post #6 nailed it out the park in terms of wanting to understand exactly what I was missing. The 50mm will produce the same distortion on either the FF/Crop camera if used at the same distance from the subject, the framing will just be drastically altered.
So, on a FF, to get the subject filling more of the frame I'd obviously have to be closer, which would introduce the distortion. It makes perfect sense, I had a decent understanding of compression, and the flattening effect, and how wide angle vs telephoto impacted composition (backgrounds, 'flatness') but was missing the simple, yet key fact, distance makes the distortion not focal length. Thanks again for sending me in the right direction!
I think I read that thread a long time ago, as the pictures all looked familiar, but pretty sure at the time I read it initially I didn't quite grasp it, or wasn't looking as critically at my work as I do now.
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Richard Maynard