I'm at work, and not.
Having an aging parent with issues, sucks. I may have to step in, without his permission, and legally take over his finances. It won't go down well.
Yeah, this started with us too, about the time we headed into our 50's. Not a lot of fun, and it certainly is tough on them as they loose the things they are used to doing. Driving was a huge thing with both our fathers (mine is gone now). We now manage my FIL's finaces (my MIL is gone), as he was making many blunders, and would be totally susceptible to being scammed. My mom is still doing fine to a large degree, at least her mind is strong, I just wish she would put more effort into her physical well being.
Oh well, I imagine our kids will have to deal with the same thing in 20-30 years.



