RichSoansPhotos wrote in post #16323915
lol, I was in happy bliss when you gave the link to the video, hahaha
It has confused me again
Ok, baby steps then:
1. From a given distance, a person of 20/20 vision has a set capacity to resolve detail on print.
2. By taking advantage of our limit to see detail from the distance that we expect a person to look at the print from, we can determine how out of focus the image can be before it becomes noticeable.
3. We take the above concept into account when taking the photo itself, placing focus on a point in space that can encompass as much in it's depth of field as possible, details that seem out of focus on close inspection will actually appear sharp in print, when viewed from afar.
4. Large photographs can get away with using the same amount of resolution as a small image, so long as we expect the person viewing the image to look at it from further away.
So, in it's essence, COC is all about how out of focus your image can be before it becomes visible to the eye, whether on screen or print.
A good example of COC in play is when viewing small images online, you can shoot from any camera and lens, but if you resize them all to 1024 pixels on a side, you can make the picture from a $500 camera look as good as that from a $50,000 camera. Therefore, expensive cameras and lenses are all about output size, if you aren't printing large (or aren't printing at all), you don't need more than a dozen MP worth of resolution.
The COC that the video linked to above talks about is a different, but still relevant topic. There, the COC of the sensor determines two things:
1. The aperture at which diffraction sets in.
2. How out of focus or blurry an image can be before it becomes visible at 100% magnification.
Let's take a couple of sensors, one with 18mp that has fewer and larger pixels and a 36mp sensor, and they are the same size. Now, in order for a sensor to create detail, you need two pixels, because detail is created from contrast - one white pixel, one black.
Since the pixels of the 18mp sensor are much bigger, the point of light that falls on them can be larger (blurrier or more out of focus) before the sensor registers it as smeared detail. Specifically, the point of light has to be wider than two pixels across in order for it to be visible.
When you stop down a lens, the smallest size that any point of light can be increases, and this is called diffraction; softness from diffraction sets in when the minimum point size becomes larger than two pixels on the sensor. For an 18mp sensor this can easily be as late as f/14, while for a 36mp sensor, this can be as early as f/6.3. If we had a sensor of infinite resolution, it would continue to be diffraction limited even with f/1.2 lenses wide open!
Important! - The COC of the detail that the sensor records has nothing to do with how the image will look when printed, if you were to shoot two images with the 18 and 36mp cameras at f/14 and print them at around 13x19", they would look exactly alike! This is because the large amount of diffraction softness in the 36mp shot would be lost to the limited amount of detail our eyes can see on such a small print at a distance.
Time for a breather. 
You might have noticed that I said sensor COC determines how blurry your image can be before it seems blurry. If we take the shaking if your hands, or any other vibrations as linear displacement of the sensor, a lower resolution sensor would need to see a much greater level of vibrations than a high resolution sensor before recording it as blur. To put it into practice, the 18mp sensor may be ok with the 1/FL rule for sharp hand held shots (ex: 1/50th for 50mm lens), but a 36mp sensor may need twice the shutter speed to make sure the shot is sharp at the pixel level.
So in addition to the fact that you can judge the amount of detail you can expect your sensor to resolve, and the eye of the person viewing a print, you can also expect the paper itself to limit the amount of detail that can be reproduced. This can be different even with different types and finishes of paper.
So in closing, photographers since long ago have used COC to shoot their images already having in mind the size they would want their images to be, taking into account format size, aperture, and the amount of enlargement they could get away with.