There are thought photons that sleet through the universe and occasionally hit you at just the right angle and just the right way and POWW an idea forms.
You are selling to the wrong market. You are selling to the customer expecting them to be as discriminating as you are as a photographer. You have years of experience, know what makes a good photo and shed loads about what makes a bad photo. They don't.
Think about when your friends show you wedding albums by other photogs. You ooh and ahh with comments like "they really captured the moment", "the dress is amazing", "everyone looks so happy". And they smile and say yes, they are happy with the album, and what you really want to say, no, scream is how rubbish it is. But if you say that, and then show them why, they will never look at photos the same again, they will become more discriminating and you will have lost friends as YOU ruined their wedding album for them.
Don't expect your customers to know anything about what makes a good photo above "we can see smiling people in the photo", it's harder when they do... Which is why cheap photogs exist, people aren't looking for the perfectly constructed un-critiquable photo, they want passable photos that remind them of their day, who was there and how great they looked.
The only way of being exposed to a more discriminating couple is price yourself into that market. If you price yourself higher you will move into the market where people have the time to look at art and have spent the time learning to look at things rather than worrying about this months rent/car payment. This is a generalisation, it will not be true of everyone but enough of the market to make it useful.
Anyway just my 2p worth.
Best regards and good luck with whatever you do.
BearSummer (who now photographs buildings cos they don't complain I made them look fat)