So after some deliberation, I am ready to add one (but not both) of these lenses, as I feel either one fills a pretty obvious hole in my lens lineup that I'd like to fill.
I did the quite time consuming exercise of looking through most of the pictures I took in 2013, and a vast majority of the ones I like were taken in the 35-50mm and 80-100mm ranges.
Hence why I like the 24-105 so much as a primary walk-around lens. However, since I do do quite a bit of indoor people shooting in low light, I have been hankering for a 2.8 zoom, and the Tamron fits the budget.
But of course the 85mm 1.8 makes sense since its around the focal length I like shooting at, and I don't have anything faster than f/4 in that range currently, while I have 35-50mm pretty well covered.
So, which one should I get?

, I think.
